Our Beliefs
- We honor the connection adoptees have to both of their families.
- We recognize the love and joy as well as the losses and grief of adoption.
- We do not diminish one family in favor of another.
- We are flexible, understanding that needs and circumstances change.
- We set boundaries on the basis of what is best for our children.
- We understand that open adoption looks like different things for different families.
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first fathers Archive
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Community Wisdom
I care about the children that my placed son first father has had with his wife. Is this unhealthy and weird?
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Community Wisdom
As adoptive parents, do you value the gifts/contact/etc of a first mom more than a first dad? Or any other first family?
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Community Wisdom
Can anyone of you tell me if the idea of involvement with extended first families made YOU 'uncomfortable'?
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Community Wisdom
I lied about the birth father. How do I tell the truth now?
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Community Wisdom
Why don't first fathers get the same consideration as first moms?
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