I am a birthmom and decided on open adoption prior to my daughters birth a little more than 2 years ago. Me and “Sally & Joe” clicked from our first meeting. We have minor disagreements..but move past them with ease. I got pregnant for a second time 9 months after signing adoption. (in the back of my head i knew they wanted a second child…and i didnt want another birthmom to be involved) so I talked with them and they adopted my son as well. 2 sibling together..Great!:)..My question is this: If a birthmom is having bleeding or any other physical problems caused from birth..whether it be 1 month post birth or 3…if its directly related– Should the adoptive parents “joe and sally” be the one the takes me to the doctor (i dont have a car) I am having post birth hemmoraging..I asked for them to take me..and the response was..”we dont want to bring the kids to the doctor” and “why cant ____ take u?” Showing complete disregard for my health and future of my Womb if i dont go to doctor asap. Any comments? I feel like a machine…they treat me like i have no feelings. Thanks in advance for any advice.
If a birthmom is having physical problems caused from birth should the adoptive parents be the ones to take me to the doctor?
– March 28, 2012Posted in: Community Wisdom